Friday, June 26, 2015
"Either seem as you are or be as you seem." - Mevlana (Rumi)
"Either seem as you are or be as you seem."
Mevlana (Rumi)
In Turkish:
"Ya olduğun gibi görün ya da göründüğün gibi ol."
So what Mevlana wants to say is that people should be honest with themselves and the rest of the world by presenting their true nature as it is, and their appearance and behavior should reflect their real thoughts.
This quote determined me to have a little one day experiment on my Facebook page. I asked my Facebook friends to tell me the first word that comes into their minds when they think of me. The result lead me to think that either I am not that popular, or the question was to weird for them because I only had 12 replies and some likes to some of the comments. I bet that some people think that this is one of my ways to feed my ego. They are partially true. I knew I will get some answers that will be viciously devoured by my self esteem, but don't tell me you don't get moved by compliments because I won't believe it. I was also curious of how people perceive me. Here it is:
This little experiment finally showed me that the persons that replied know me, or better said they perceive me in a way that reflects my character or parts of it. I was very happy. So the question now is: is it that they learned to read me, or is it me the one that presented herself in a way that she could recognize herself from an anonymous description of one of those people? I would answer that there can't be one without the other.
Understanding others comes from understanding ourselves.
One can read the impression he/she has on others from just one word even if that word is apparently related to the physical appearance. You don't need to study psychology. All of this comes from reason and from intuition that comes from experience.
There is always room from improvement.
Look at yourself carefully and honestly analyze yourself. Restrain your vanity from attacking and have a sincere talk with you. You will find a wide range of emotions, many of those you would like to have hidden. Some are harmful and some can be food for a brighter ego, a better self esteem. Don't choose out of fear, vanity or comfort, but choose which of these emotions you want to help grow so they can also help you develop into the person you want to be and that you would be proud to present to the world.
Be courageous and don't give up.
Have faith that there is at least one person that will in all ways accept you for who you truly are. Even if there is just one don't give up because if you are happy with yourself then appreciation of others will follow even from people you would not expect.
The greatest work of our lives is self-development.
Never stop putting effort in your self-development. Widen your range of emotions as much as possible and continuously try to learn new things. Still don't forget to keep it real. Don't do unnecessary things that will not bring real value to your life.
So what about trying this experiment for yourselves and see how others see you?
Good luck friends!
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Istanbul - the city that resounds with the beatings of my heart
Istanbul – let me teach you how to love it
This post
was asking to be published from a long time ago. For a couple of years now I
have been providing my friends with information for their trips to Istanbul,
but I didn’t get the chance to gather all the data in one place. I’ll make up
for that by making you fall in love with Istanbul just as I have with a guide
through the city.
Some info
Istanbul, or
Constantinople at is was named before the Ottoman conquest in 1453 by Mehmed
the Conqueror, was the imperial capital of 4 empires, Roman, Byzantine, Latin
and Ottoman. When you are visiting remember that you are surrounded by a great
history and that what you are seeing is a testimony of a unique mixture of
cultures that has transcended time and that makes you incredibly lucky to see
it now. It is the only city in the world spreading on two continents Europe and
Asia. It has an official population of 14.4 million, not taking into
consideration the large number of Turkish people that have residency in other
parts of the country, but are living in Istanbul, and the immigrants and
tourists visiting from all over the world. You could say that there are about
18 million people in Istanbul. So you can better understand how large and dense
it is let me tell you that I am living in Romania and the whole population of
Romania is 18 million.
The
Bosphorus strait separating the city into the European and Asian side adds to
the beauty of the city and it gives you a view of the two continents that for
me it is breathtaking. I am terribly subjective on the subject so I’d better show
you:
Transport!
To reach city center from the airports you should take the Havataş that is an express bus service from right outside the airport. It does not cost much and it will take you to Taksim Square.
When reaching Istanbul make sure you buy yourself the Istanbul Kart (Istanbul Card).
When reaching Istanbul make sure you buy yourself the Istanbul Kart (Istanbul Card).
The easiest
way to get the Istanbul Kart is at major transit stops such as the airport,
Sultanahmet, and Eminönü. To buy an Istanbul Kart, you need to pay a
non-refundable 6 TL fee (for the actual card and the service), and of course an
amount of your choice to load onto the card.
To reload
the card, you can either go to newsstands and small shops (look for the phrase
Akbil Dolum Noktası) which offer this service, use self-service special purpose
machines at major transit stations. The machines accept notes of 5, 10, 20, and
50 TL and have instructions in multiple languages.
You can use
the card for all types of public transport from bus, tram, metro, funicular and
ferry.
Be smart and use smartphone applications
Install
Moovit application (http://moovitapp.com/) on your phone and make sure you
have Internet connectivity. It will get you around Istanbul by offering multiple
ways to your destination.
During your
trip it is important to watch your belongings so they don’t get stolen.
Use Foursquare
to get reviews on places to visit, restaurants, bars, and clubs.
Make sure
you know how to read a map and that you don’t run out of battery so you can use
the GPS in case of emergency. Advice!
Get yourself a power bank.
Learn Turkish
Learn a few
words in Turkish. It will help you a lot. Turkish people appreciate those that
learn a bit of their language. Here are a few videos that you can check out.
Places to stay
If this is your first time in Istanbul better pick a place near the touristic attractions like Taksim, Nisantasi, Beyoglu area, or Sultanahmet. Read the reviews so you know where your hotel is located. I would not recommend Aksaray and Laleli at all because those districts are not quite safe.European Side of Istanbul
During your
visit to the European side of Istanbul you might pass by the Old City Walls of
Constantinople built with defensive purposes, and the Rumeli Hisarı or Rumeli Fortress that you can see from the Bosphorus Tour. You are
surrounded by so much history that you can imagine that the pebble you just
stepped on might have witnessed the conquest of Constantinople in 1453.
There are
more areas in Istanbul that you can’t miss. Keep in mind that Istanbul is one
huge city and time is very precious. If you want to visit and also have a good
time then you should put in a little effort by making a plan and sticking to
it. Here are some suggestions that you can use to make your schedule:
- Sultanahmet area with Topkapı Palace, Hagia Sophia, Sultan Ahmet Mosque (The
Blue Mosque) and the Basilica Cistern (Yerebatan) can be visited all in one day
if you start visiting from 9-10 am in that order. Topkapı Palace will take about 3-4 hours, Hagia Sophia, Sultan Ahmet Mosque and
Basilica Cistern 1 hour each. You can have lunch after exiting the palace or at
the restaurant located inside the palace facing Bosphorus. Topkapı Palace, the old palace of the
Sultans, holds many treasures. You will see chambers that display objects of
the prophets, the imperial treasures, gifts from the Ottoman period, the
kiosks, and arms collections. Make sure to not miss the Harem. Where you will
see a large number of people waiting in line be sure that you join because they
are not waiting for Turkish Delight, but to visit something of historical and
cultural value. For Sultan Ahmet Mosque make you are dressed decent or you will
not be allowed inside. In the Basilica Cistern look for a column that looks like it's crying. It has a hole in it. The legend says that if you stick your thumb there and manage to rotate your palm around it 360 degrees then what you wished for will come true.
- Grand Bazaar (Kapalı Çarşı) – it is one of the biggest covered markets in the world and in 2014 was ranked no.1 among world's most-visited tourist attractions with 91,250,000 annual visitors. If you want to do shopping there keep in mind that you need to negotiate hard and please don’t get yourself fooled. If you feel that you need help with this I’ll train you.J) And please don’t get lost on the many streets of the Grand Bazaar! Print a map. This visit to Grand Bazaar may take you from 2 to 5 hours or more if you are planning to buy the whole Bazaar. You have some cool outlets and malls in Istanbul so don’t buy many stuff from Bazaar because you might pay extra money for nothing.
- Egyptian Bazaar(Mısır Çarşısı) and Eminönü. The Egyptian Bazaar is located in the Eminönü area. You can buy Turkish Delight, spices and different souvenirs from here. You should definitely try Ekmek Balık which is Fish in Bread from Eminönü. Eminönü it is a very important and large bus station. You can also book a Bosphorus Tour from the same place. The tour takes about 1.5 hours.
- Galata Tower, Istiklal Avenue and TaksimSquare. One of the city's most striking landmarks, Galata Tower (Galata Kulesi- https://en.wikipedia.org/?title=Galata_Tower) offers a panoramic view of the historical peninsula and the Bosphorus. Istiklal Avenue (İstiklal Caddesi - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C4%B0stiklal_Avenue) starts from the Galata Tower area and leads up to Taksim Square. Located in the historic Beyoğlu (Pera) district, it is an elegant pedestrian street, 1.4 kilometers long, which houses boutiques, music stores, bookstores, art galleries, cinemas, theatres, libraries, cafés, pubs, night clubs with live music, historical patisseries, chocolateries and restaurants. It doesn’t matter if you have a tight budget or not, you will find good food at all the prices. I can suggest to try the breakfast, sweets and Turkish ice-cream at Mado or Özsüt, and lunch at Midpoint on the terrace if the weather allows it. There are almost all the important brands on that street. There is a great Mango outlet in case you want to buy something. My favorite brand is also there and is called adL (http://www.adilisik.com/). For clubbing, and food as well, you can try 360 Istanbul (http://www.360istanbul.com/). The historic tram crossing the avenue adds to its old charm and popularity. Taksim Square is considered the heart of modern Istanbul, with the central station of the Istanbul Metro network. Taksim Square is also the location of the Monument of the Republic (Turkish: Cumhuriyet Anıtı) which was crafted by Pietro Canonica and inaugurated in 1928. The monument commemorates the 5th anniversary of the foundation of the Republic of Turkey in 1923, following the Turkish War of Independence.
- Nişantaşı is a quarter of the Şişli district up north of Taksim. It comprises neighborhoods like Teşvikiye, Maçka, Osmanbey and Pangaltı. A popular shopping and residential district, it is considered to be one of Istanbul's most exclusive neighbourhoods. The area includes brand name stores, popular European-style cafés, pubs, restaurants and night clubs. Abdi İpekçi Street, Turkey's most expensive shopping street in terms of lease prices, stretches from the neighbourhoods of Maçka and Teşvikiye to the center of Nişantaşı. Try lunch at Hünkar restaurant (http://www.hunkarlokantasi.com/main.asp). The food is great!
- Dolmabahce Palace or Dolmabahçe Sarayı is located in the Beşiktaş district and you can reach there by bus or by tram(Kabataş – last station). The palace located on the European coastline of the Bosphorus strait, served as the main administrative center of the Ottoman Empire from 1856 to 1922, apart from a 22-year interval (1887–1909) in which Yıldız Palace was used. I suggest you get the full tour and tickets because it is one beautiful palace. It will take about 3-4 hours to visit (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dolmabah%C3%A7e_Palace). While you are in the area you can have coffee at Kahve Dünyası near the Kabataş tram station, that is some sort of Turkish Starbucks with Turkish coffee, sweets and snacks. Try the cheesecake.
- From Kabataş you can take the ferries to the islands. The largest one is Büyükada (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/B%C3%BCy%C3%BCkada). No cars there just bicycles and horse-drawn phaeton carriages which function like taxi cabs, also offering "round-the-island" sightseeing tours. Visitors can take the "small tour" of the island by a phaeton, leading to the point from where it is a strenuous climb to Agia Yorgi (St. George, in Greek Άγιος Γεώργιος), a tiny hilltop church with a magnificent panoramic view, and a café in its garden that serves wine, chips and sausage sandwiches, this being a part of the "classic" Agia Yorgi experience. You should make one day trip to the islands. It is impossible to do anything else besides that.
- Back in Istanbul now go to Ortaköy by bus or taxi. Located there the Neo-Baroque style Ortaköy Mosque is a beautifully ornate structure, right on the jetty of Ortaköy, bordering the waters of the Bosphorus, and thus highly visible from the passing boats. There are plenty of restaurants(pretty expensive), clubs(one of them is Reina), souvernire shops in the area. Ortaköy is famous for kumpir and waffle. I personally go there every time I am in Istanbul and eat kumpir at the restaurant behind the mosque, on the coastline, facing the Bosphorus Bridge.
- Bebek, Etiler, Arnavutköy and Sarıyer are residential districts north of Istanbul that you should visit in case you have the time. You can have lunch at great, but not cheap, restaurants and enjoy the spectacular view of Bosphorus. You will see a more luxurious face of Istanbul. “Good” people live there. The traffic is criminal.
- Levent & Maslak. Two of the business districts in Istanbul. Tall buildings, restaurants and malls. You can check these two if you have business in the area.
- Pierre Loti hill. You can take a bus from Eminönü and reach the top of the hill (that is actually a cemetery) with the teleferik. You will get to see a spectacular Istanbul from above. On the hill there are many restaurants and coffeehouses where you can enjoy the view and have a taste of Turkish food.
- Miniaturk – is a miniature park situated at the north-eastern shore of Golden Horn in Istanbul, Turkey. It was opened May 2, 2003. Miniatürk covers a total area of 60,000 square metres (650,000 sq ft). It is one of the world's largest miniature parks with its 15,000 m2 (160,000 sq ft) model area. The park contains 122 models in 1:25 scale. It contains structures from in and around Turkey, as well as interpretations of historic structures. Nice to visit, but only if you have the time for it because it may take a couple of hours.
Asian side of Istanbul
Finally we
reach the Asian side of Istanbul. You can get there by bus, metrobus, ferry or
metro. The fastest way is by metro from Sirkeci to Üsküdar. You can also take the ferry if the weather is nice from
Karaköy to Kadıköy.
- Kadıköy a residential and commercial area that, with its numerous bars, cinemas and bookshops, is the cultural centre of the Anatolian side of Istanbul (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kad%C4%B1k%C3%B6y). I found something nice for you to read because maaan am I tired or what of writing: http://atdaa.com/the-ultimate-guide-for-kadikoy-taksim-of-the-asian-side
- Üsküdar is one of Istanbul's oldest-established residential areas. It is directly opposite the old city of Eminönü and transport across the Bosphorus is easy by boat or bridge. Üsküdar's long promenade along the coast from the center down in southern direction towards the bus station at Harem is popular in summer as it commands excellent views of the European shore of Topkapı Palace, Aya Sofya, Sultan Ahmed Mosque (The Blue Mosque), Taksim and Beşiktaş. This promenade is lined with cafes and restaurants, the most famous and prominent of which is not on the coast but out in the water: Kız Kulesi (Maiden's Tower), a small tower just off the coast that has existed since Byzantine times. From time to time it has been used as a toll booth; now it is used as an upscale restaurant and a venue for wedding parties. The name comes from a legend about a princess shut in the tower.
- Bağdat Avenue(Bağdat Caddesi) – you can reach it by bus from Kadıköy. The street runs approximately 14 km (8.7 mi) from east to west in the Maltepe and Kadıköy districts, almost parallel to the coastline of the Sea of Marmara. The most important part of the street is the one-way traffic, avenue-like section, which is 6 km (3.7 mi) long from Bostancı to Kızıltoprak, within the district of Kadıköy. Or you can just get off at Suadiye station. It can be seen as the counterpart of Istiklal Avenue on the European side in terms of importance and glamour. So people the street is a must walk on. Shops and restaurants everywhere inside an european style area. You should also take a walk or drive on the coastline that is parallel to the avenue. New shops, restaurants and a nice view to the sea.
Other attractions
There
are many places and museums to visit in Istanbul like Panorama 1453
Museum, Sabancı Museum, the Archeological Museum, the Museum of Turkish
and Islamic Arts, Istanbul Modern aka Istanbul Museum
of Modern Art, Ottoman palaces, the parks, hamams, Çamlıca Hill, the
football stadiums, Vialand theme park, and others. You should go to these places only if you
had visited Istanbul more than once.
Çamlıca Hill
Çamlıca Hill
Shopping in Istanbul!
Check this
link bellow and use Moovit application or just ask people how to go there in
case you want to make some shopping.
Boys and
girls you have great history, a unique mix of cultures, spectacular architecture,
museums, awesome food because Turkish food is awesome, the Bosphorus, clubs,
pubs, bars, shops and malls. There is no way to go to all the places I
mentioned, but you can make a selection and save a few hours to enjoy your trip
in the evening at the Bosphorus coastline by drinking a Turkish tea,
by listening to the sound of the water and the Istanbul’s seagulls.
P.S.: You
might feel a bit suffocated because there is a flow of Syrian and Arab immigrants
in Istanbul that you might take for as Turks if you can’t tell the difference in
language.
ENJOY ISTANBUL!
Monday, June 1, 2015
Happy Children’s Day! - food for thought
Happy
Children’s Day!
What good
times we had as children. We weren’t worried about how to make a living by
ourselves. We had fun playing with toys, we had people holding us by the hand,
guiding us and teaching us principles of life and morals. Our parents and
teachers cared, protected and taught us right from wrong. They provided us with
all the living necessities, food on the table, clothes, a warm home and access
to proper education. They were our idols that we learned from and to whom we
were looking up to be like when growing up.
So had many
dreams. We were playing with our dolls or cars imagining ourselves as doctors, astronauts,
scientists, policemen, firefighters, professors, and so on.
Did we all
really had this? Do all the children receive the same treatment? Did we all had
a happy childhood? No, most children don’t. Not all of us are that lucky.
The discrepancies
in the society and worldwide economy, differences between cultures and ways of
life continue to have an important influence on the individual from birth till
death. Sometimes the destiny of one child’s is decided at birth. Daily children
die of malnutrition and disease in the poor countries of the world. Many don’t get
to go to school or have access to proper health care or even shelter. Sometimes
poverty forces them to work so they can provide for their families in case they
still have one and was not killed in a war. In other countries where traditions
still rule over reason girls are not allowed to receive education or they don’t
have the same rights as boys do. Children nowadays are being abused as part of
war tactics. Natural disasters threaten the normal development of a
child through lack of food, shelter, medical assistance and disease. Another dangerous environment can also be that what children call home.
Abuses occur in developed countries as well. Violence, rape, alcohol, drugs can
destroy the future of a child if they are exposed to them. I would add to that
list the lack of attention from parents, broken families, and exaggerated exposure
to online and social media or even games.
The dangers
posed to the safety of a child’s life continue to diversify as the society
develops in one direction or another. It is the parent’s, the community’s, the
society’s job to provide for the needs of children. Teach your children about
the real world, educate them so they can differentiate right from wrong and to
value what they have. Teach them how to play but also tolerance, how to care for one another and respect
for human life. Protect your children and provide them with what they need so they can grow to be better and happier than you. They are our future and the future is in your hands.
If one is
interested on the issues of the real world should take a look on the UN reports
on children (http://www.unicef.org/). I
would highly encourage you to donate for the children suffering from the Nepal
earthquake. They need your help.
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